Wow, that's weird about the driving together. I'm glad to hear the D is done and over, and that W got sensible at the last moment and took the offer. I'm happy for the possibility that you'll be able to move to your new piece of land, house, life.
I wanted to pop in to say that I enjoyed your post on CVA's forum about what's attractive to you---that was very thoughtful and thought-provoking as well. I have no doubt that with all your changes, your insight regarding what's important to you, and your cut self, that you'll narrow down the pool of applicants eventually into a fantastic R for yourself.
It's been an inspiration reading your own threads and your posts to others. Take care.