so what are you saying i do tomorrow, just let him say he wants out and agree with it, i can't , i can't do it

You really don't have a choice...if he wants out he can get out. You don't have to agree with it.

How do i not push him, There was no pushing today, just pure honesty, thats all

You are kidding yourself. Honesty is not saying what you feel when you feel it because you feel it.

Honesty is telling the truth when you're asked. He didn't ask you. He already knew those things.



how do i show him here is where he belongs,

1) show is correct not tell
2) make him happy, do the things that are REAL GIVING...what does he want?



how do i handle tomorrow SG

You cannot do what you did today.

If he talks you LISTEN with duct tape on your mouth. Tell him you really want to absorb what he has to say.


Don't tell him you want to work it out unless he asks.
Don't tell him you agree to divorce.
If he asks you anything, be honest.


Then you go do something nice and good for yourself to take care of yourself.


DO NOT LET HIM SEE YOU BEG/PLEAD/or CRY.




You have the right. It will just backfire. And you already have prove that it does that for you.


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You might try reading TRUCE TRIGGERS.



Last edited by sgctxok; 12/09/07 07:47 AM.
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Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001