I told him that I would rather he be honest with me and let me go if he wants out than to just keep me hanging on. He sends such mixed signals.
I think that if you keep telling him, "if you want out then let me go".. eventually he will "let you go".. becuase that's "what you've been asking for."
if you dont want that.. then stop asking for it.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle