I am jealous though that your both read the 5LL. I barely got my H to take the quiz. I still don't get mine (meaning, he doesn't show me MY 5LL), but I guess we never talked about it. I've told him many times before about needing to hear words from him. more than just "you look nice" two times a year. or dinner was good. So, I'm still waiting for mine. So, I guess maybe I should ask him to read the book, or maybe print out a page or two... cuz I know he wouldn't read the whole thing. he's kinda your stereotypical guy, watches football all day, wouldn't read anything unless it was about vietnam, likes to just chill on the couch after work, doesn't talk about emotional stuff ever, etc.
whoops...didn't mean to go on about me.
patience. yes, you will continue learning that one. but do realize, that your M is going to be much better after all of this. And think how much stronger it will be too. And if you guys both believe in the same foundation of faith.. you know, like "believe in Christ and you will be saved", then it doesn't really matter about the rest. You can learn from each other, and plus, we're suppose to have a childlike faith anyways... and sometimes focusing so hard on all the details, I think can cause us more difficulties.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
but do realize, that your M is going to be much better after all of this. And think how much stronger it will be too. And if you guys both believe in the same foundation of faith.. you know, like "believe in Christ and you will be saved", then it doesn't really matter about the rest. You can learn from each other, and plus, we're suppose to have a childlike faith anyways... and sometimes focusing so hard on all the details, I think can cause us more difficulties. 
