Suppose YOU weren't happy and you thought someone was providing you an out. A place where you could escape and really be happy. Or happier. Where would you go.
And suppose the place where you weren't happy starting shoveling more of the same at you and trying to get you to stay. Would you? Or would you run.
That's where your H perceives he's at.
And when you tell him all the things you told him, you didn't provide reasons to stay, you provided reasons to leave. You reminded him why he isn't happy. Knock it off.
You DO know what to do. Because you start doing it then lapse into this. You don't have leeway now, because it is getting worse.
IT ISN'T TOO LATE
START NOW
BEGIN AGAIN
DUCT TAPE i'm not kidding---i know folks who use it on their mouths
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
