I am 46, D with 2 grown kids. Was on here a couple of years ago. I could REALLY USE some help.
I am really losing it.
My X wants us to be friends, but I always want so badly for us to get back together. This causes her to not even want to see me or take my phone calls. So I am even more lonely.
She tried to invite me to dinner the other night but I was already at home from work, and we could not get together. Now she does not want to see me.
I don't think she is having too much fun being alone. She is self-employed and has no health insurance and has to work all the time. I don't think she is seeing anyone.
I have someone that I hang out with but nothing more. It sure helps having someone around the house most of the time. If not I would have gone crazy a long time ago. I can't seem to think of the rest of my life alone though, but can't seem to move on.
I just feel like my X and I SHOULD be together and don't want to let anything get in the way emotionally.
If you have grown kids should they be kept out of any discussions about you and your X?
