I Was Almost A WAW....Still (Next Thread)

[Dom R]

Moved this reply over from Ann's thread... 'cause it belongs more on your thread, than hers.

so please don't pressure me, ok? Timing is everything and I have learned from bad experiences that I better wait until I know it is the "right" time to discuss things of that nature with my H or I will be sorry for ever bringing the subject up.

That's certainly true....
However, DO keep in mind though, that for some things, there is never a "right time". If you wait for more than another day or two, you will probably lose your nerve to do it.

Last time I "didnt pressure you" to do stuff...

you completely flaked out, didnt follow through, and got yourself into a depression, because your husband wasnt doing stuff for you. And as a result, you were fixing to head out to find yourself another OM, emotionally.

Why wasnt your H doing stuff for you during the last month?

because you didnt ask.



It's been two days, since we finished talking about the strategy. (no, wait, 3 days, i think)
No-one is in a bad mood for two days straight, continuously. Unless they need medical help, maybe. but you're the one on ADs, not your H, eh?

Dont let things tank between you and your husband again, like you let it last month.
You let it happen, by not following through after you started the positive momentum. You chose to let the positive momentum die out before.


I figure if you dont talk to him this weekend, then you are setting yourself up to chicken out again.
You're using the exact same excuse you did last time.

If you're serious about really saving your marriage, rather than just talking about it on this message board... go DO it.