Adventures of Supermom...JennyF's 2nd thread

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J
You said what you needed to, now let it all go
see if he follows through with the financial stuff and if it is acceptable to you -thank him

I have wanted to tell H off so much over the last 10 months
I think there is a definite cleansing for us when it is done
Im not sure how they in MLC handle it
when we went to MC early after bomb, I told him a few things
nothing really helped..he had to continue on thru the tunnel
so now, I say nothing
I thank him for what he does
especially the financial support which he always gives
if he buys something for kids or babysits --i thank him
This is all so difficult
we learn more as we go
I was told to make H feel safe
so when time came, he knew he could return
No guilt trips
I have had to bite my tongue many times
good luck
peace