\:\) Today was a good day overall. D10 and I put up more decorations in the house and I put up some outside. H showed up in the afternoon and said all we needed now was a tree. H felt horrible today but went with us anyway to cut down a tree. D10 and I decorated the tree after we got home. D15 was being a teen IM on the computer.

H went to buy oil for the cars and filled up the washer fluid. He said he would get new wiper blades tomorrow. Don't know if he did it to be nice or because he thinks I'm not capable.

H ate take out with us for dinner and played on the computer. Ended up staying half the day. I had stopped at the store to buy him some meds for his flu. I told him I could sleep on the couch if he wanted to try getting some sleep in the bed tonight. He said thanks but no thanks.

Talked about taking the Ds to church in the morning and asked H if he was going. Said he was going to try to sleep in. I agreed that was a good idea given how ill he is. After he left he called to see if Ds wanted to do something tomorrow. Said we hadn't talked about and asked if he had something in mind. H said he didn't. I suggested we wait and see how he feels tomorrow. He didn't specify if I would be included or if he just wanted to do something w/ Ds. I'll see what tomorrow brings.

Positives today: \:D
1. Had fun getting the tree.
2. House looks festive.
3. Spent a lot of time together although not much dialogue at all.
4. My eyes stayed dry all day and I'm back to being strong.

Strange thing for the day:
H told me to get money out of his wallet for dinner. H just switched his wallet a couple of days ago. H put my C's card in his wallet. He doesn't have any future app. w/ her. Thought that was weird.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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