guess I shuld probably write more than that, after writing something as dramatic as that.

you started this off by trying to be as nice to him as you could, when he brought up separation. he moved out.
after you were separated you reached out to him. and he dated other women.
he came back for a little while... you shared yourself with him as much as you could... and he went further away.

maybe it's time to stop doing what isnt working, and do a 180.
What's a 180 from what you've been doing?

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle