Problem is at this stage the WAS is so closed and withdrawn that the odds of anyhting working are extremely low. Their goals and dreams are to leave. Guessing at 180s to me is not the way to go.
you're right. guessing at 180s is a horrible thing to do. "180s" only help, if you carefully, and thoughtfully figure out what you have been doing, that your spouse dislikes, and then try the opposite of that.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
