He only does what you allow him to do. You are allowing him to get to you. You are allowing all of this. Why did you engage in text conversation? Keep it short and simple. He wants the D let him go do the work. You keep out of it. When he stopped texting you felt rejected and he took the power back. You say he doesn't care about your feelings......he doesn't.
Don't reply to his texts. It doesn't change anything. Baby is not here yet. Really is no need to discuss anything with him.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!