I sure didn't mean to be doing that.....and really don't think I did since my H did not do anything like her H is doing to her. Mine has never thrown the OM up in my face nor has he wanted to see me naked, couldn't keep his hands off me, nor make the snide remarks that her H is making to her that is not very loving or appropriate.
I will talk to my H when the time is right. But, he has not been in a good mood and I don't feel the time is right. I will know when it is.....not you, so please don't pressure me, ok? Timing is everything and I have learned from bad experiences that I better wait until I know it is the "right" time to discuss things of that nature with my H or I will be sorry for ever bringing the subject up.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
