jm,

i think staying dark is the right thing,,, if the mutual friend is there for you then your W my see that you are not moving on and that your changes are not real i have cut off mutual frineds that talk to both of us, if they call me i talk to them say im doing fine and the kids are fine i dont ask about the W this may get bak to W or not but if it does then my W will see im not the pursuer anymore i have backed off and standing strong alone...


Me 35
W 26
S 3
D 10 months
I have custody
Bomb 11/9/07
W PA 10/07 ended 2/08
Removed W from house 11/16/07
I filed in Nov.
D put on hold
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1268484&page=6&fpart=16