I'm sorry what you are going through. Your ex sounds like such an ass I would like to hit him over the head.
He will reap what he sows, count on it and I hope you are there to watch.
There is no excuse for what he is doing.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11