This is hard. Dh has sent 4 texts asking how I am doing and when I didn't respond he asks if I am there???? This is the same thing we have done for over a year now. He sends the same testing the waters texts, I respond, we got together, he left and nothing changed.
I hate not responding. Makes me feel like I am playing some sort of game. Almost like if I make him mad enough will he change his ways. Its Saturday and he is probably drinking. Im sure he is texing OW and probably others as well because he needs that validation that he is such a wanted man. Can you tell I am getting riled up here? Then, I don't respond, he drinks more and gets to the point where he needs some ego stroking and goes out or finds ow. Its a vicous cycle.
How do you stop it?
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
