Mako,

Every sitch is different but I did want to say that in my sitch we did not have contact for a while and then when we did she just met me to shoot me down again. However, in the mean time I had been listening a lot to some of the things that she had been saying in our short encounters over the past two months and had written them down. She asked what was on the notepad and I told her. She did not react at that meeting but thought a lot about those things and I think she realized that I was "getting it". Might be good to look back on what she has been saying and see if there is a list that you could come up with on her needs and desires. Like I said, every sitch is different. Just a thought.

I hope that you will be able to detach well and that she will eventually come around. Good luck!


ME-30
WAW-28
T-12yrs
M-5yrs
no kids
Bomb 10/1/07
S-10/1/07

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