Well I now know, really i always knew that the reason the W does not bother to see the kids on weekends is because she is hanging out with OM doing gigs at crappy little clubs. Again i know that will not last and she will realize that is not much of a life. Afriend spoke with her about 2 weeks ago on one of her visits with the kids, and asked her what she wants, and again she couldnt answer. She told the W your husband still loves you why dont you work on things. She stated and go back to the way things were, and the friend replied no he is willing to work on things. the W said why would he want me back after everything that has happened and the friend simply stated bc he still cares about you and his family. At the time i dont think the W changed her mind but its only been a month since the bomb so maybe it will still make the W think a little bit. the kids and i are going to decorate the tree today and take lots of pictures, also the friend said the W snoops around the house while she is visiting whats that all about....


Me 35
W 26
S 3
D 10 months
I have custody
Bomb 11/9/07
W PA 10/07 ended 2/08
Removed W from house 11/16/07
I filed in Nov.
D put on hold
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