Olive... I know its hard but dont drive yourself crazy. My W filed for the Big D a few months after we 1st separated 2 years ago. A few months into it, she called the D off.

I know exactly how you feel about the finality of it but trust me, its not over. Keep on DBing, even if it doesnt work out, you will grow from this experience and eventually meet someone WAAAYYYYY better than your husband.

Thinking of you.

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07