not a peep

[Dom R]

So, you think that retro would be a waste of time?

well, they say that it isnt particularly good for people who are actively involved in an affair.
your husband is kinda halfway there. you might say he's actively pursuing an affair that doesnt exist yet.
(my instinct is that it probably depends on WHY the person is involved in the affair.)

I dunno. it might help. I think i'm just saying, that if you do go, and it doesnt work for the two of you, it would not be a huge surprise.

PS:

(There is some word that might capture what I am trying to say better, but I can' think of it.)

how about "hippie" ?
"new age"?

free love, man.. it's groooovyyyy...