Olive..... I too am sorry that this is what your H has decided. You and your DD deserve much more then what your H right now is capable of giving to the the two of you. I hope that he wakes up and sees the OW for who she really is.... From what I recall she has cheated before on her XH....I guess your H is hoping for her to do the same to him.
Sitting where I am the choice was obvious. Your H has made the wrong one.
FYI....Living under the same roof during the D process is hard....I just lived it. My family was right there but we were never a family. Every morning that I left for work I wanted to kiss my W's forhead like I did for years....I didn't because it did not feel appropriate... I guess why it was so hard everything that I wanted and hoped for was right there yet that hope was unobtainable.
Take care of yourself...Keep be a great mom.... Scott
