Limboland part 4

[bookpusher]

It is hard to get over that fact that once they cared but they seem not to now kris. I guess all we can do is keep living and trying to enjoy life.

Yesterday DD and I bought a gingerbread house kit and a Christmas tree. The Christmas tree is still outside being buried by the 80 feet of snow we are getting (note: this may be a little exaggeration but I am dreading having to shovel snow). The kit house kept falling down. It was funny but we finally got it stand and it was still up this morning except for the chimney which fell off. <g>. We also watched the third in the Santa Clause movies. It was a nice evening.

H and DD missed their C appointment yesterday. The C called me at work and asked if I knew where DD was. I said "with H" and she said the DD wasn't answering her cell phone and H said he forgot about the appointment. I tracked down DD (at food place) and left work to pick her up (yeah, an excuse to leave work!). I didn't call or talk to H and he didn't call or talk to me. I think he had contacted DD because when I picked her up she said that she didn't know about the appointment and I hadn't said a word about the appointment yet.(hmmmm, as I reviewed what I said when I dropped her up in the morning, her selective hearing must have been turned to not listening). A couple of things bother me about this: I can see H not contacting me because he might have contacted DD and it really didn't concern me, other than I had to pick up the pieces (get DD home) and that really was just me getting out of work because she could easily have taken the bus home but I wonder if H would have contacted me if he couldn't have gotten hold of DD. I doubt it. I really don't feel he would contact me unless the C said to. I know I shouldn't wonder how this affected him but I do (only in a small corner of my mind). DD turned him down for Thanksgiving, then went to concert with him and now H misses C appointment. I wonder what went on/didn't go on at the concert or was this just a non-thought/caring moment by H. Doesn't affect me either way but just curious and I am still making it his responsiblity to remember/set up anything he wants to do with DD. I am betting he won't see her for a bit, at least not until the next C appointment, if the C calls him and sets it up.