Originally Posted By: saffie
Has she continued to do things for your birthday etc?

For my birthday (two months after I confronted her with the evidence - about five months ago), she gave me a t-shirt and a DVD. Thanks.

Originally Posted By: saffie

Is it something you can get the children involved in?


I am considering a necklace with the kids' birthstones. Something like this:
http://images.redenvelope.com/is/image/p...wid=250&hei=250

I could always say it's from the kids. But she will know that I did it.

Originally Posted By: saffie

I got a nice pink plastic spider catcher here I can ship over - only one careful lady owner - went down a storm when I got given that!!!!!!!!!!


I remember you teling that story last summer.


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9