So cool to hear 5LL book is helping. Glad a guy from NY can show a guy from the "Show Me" state something. LOL.
waw-p: don't stop here. I recommended 2 other things. Don't drop the ball. This was my post from a few days ago:
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1. Start combing through DR book, now. The book is written as a tool to prevent D - though most of us find it a few days or a few weeks too late. There is tons of info there.
2. You need Gary Chapman's book - Five Love Languages. This is one you both need to read and learn.
3. Get yourself a good, easy to read Bible. You tried marriage you way - now try it the right way. Look for either a New Living Translation or an Amplified Version. And when you are ready for specific resources for healing the marriage, ask. Spirituality is something you have to want. It cant be force fed. But when you understand that all your issues, you W issues, my issues are already written about - finding peace, comfort, spirituality and God is easy.
Me - 43 and She -36. No kids. Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs