I don't think anyone should have ever said such a thing about your exW. Was it said in response to something you posted? Actually don't bother answering that; whatever the reason it should not have been said.
I guess the reason I can sometimes find you scary is a very personal one. I like your straight forwardness and ability to be clear. However, words may just be words to you, but I have been brought up with a father who was incredibly clever and would use his aptitude with words to cut one down and belittle and hurt. I have both seen and been subjected to his behaviour. Words are a very powerful tool.Verbal scars can be as harmful as physical ones.
To be completely honest, sometimes I think you detract from the wonderful messages you put out in your posts with the way that they are written.
I do understand however that you have to be true to who you are so I'll give it a rest for now IMP.
I do enjoy my exchanges with you and I smile inside when posting to you because in the 'real' world I know a lot of people say that I am scary!!!!! Little do they know that inside this roaring lioness is a quivering mouse most of the time.
Take care my friend - and I hope you don't mind me calling you a friend.
saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength