I just love MJs ideas for finding the lioness and monkey in your sexuality
I'm not really advising that she try to find her lioness sexually. I'm simply advising that if she acts lioness non-sexually, her H may respond by acting sexually monkey. There are several difficult problems with acting sexually lioness. The first being that a man may respond by acting sexually monkey and turn-you off if you are naturally more of a sexual submissive. The second problem being that a man may see "lioness" as high "monkey" and not be up to the challenge of taking down that level of assertiveness. In my experience, it isn't all that easy to figure out how to signal that you want mature aggressive sex on a level playing field if you are a woman until you are actually sexually engaged. Of course, that might be partially due to the fact that I don't drink whiskey, smoke cigarettes or wear pointy heel shoes and I tend to smile a lot and duck my head and walk into things when men signal aggressively at me outside of bed. Pretty much I need to go to a bar with someone like Corri to make it work.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
