LO,
He cried, not you! (((( HUGS )))) from me for such resolve. Although I know sometimes we just reach a point where we just detach -- and that's that.

Just remember it's not over till it's over. I agree with Theo, work on you, get your groove back. If your H is still confused, that won't help him. So he's filing for D, is he still maintaining that he will live at home through all this? I think that also makes it harder on you (to live with those mixed signals).

Joie