Here is a book that may help you. It helped me cope with WAW, and realize how much my childhood had made me afraid.

Healing the Inner Child. You can buy it on Amazon.

Me: 47
Pet: Kind labrador, 12 years old. Best Friend anybody could have.

Divorce final 12/07/07
No Kids

It is no longer about the divorce or about her. It's all about how I live my life now.