Thanks everyone. A great freind of mine here in Iraq gave me a copy of the DEC 2007/JAN 2008 Men's Health Bst Life. There was an article in it called "Sudden Divorce Syndrome" that speaks to so many of the males on this board. It's stuff you probably know, but it's good to have it reinforced. Sometimes you can do nothing wrong, but nothing right. The article speaks to how difficult divorce is on men, especially those of us who are fathers.
My friend is an African American lieutenant colonel, who is a successful businessman in civilian life. He single handedly raised three daughters, because his wife was not "passionate" about their marriage and was diinterested in their kids. She just wanted out. He reviews their English papers via the internet 5 hours before his 16 hour work day begins. What do these WAW's want..Ughhhhhh!