CVA - Moving On

[Not Much Left]

GD, You are apparently the MAN!

What's your secret?

C

[Nomopo]

He's 30, hot, and tuned in.

[Not Much Left]

So, you are implying that I am old, not hot and not tuned in?

Tough day on the boards!

Went to the Galleria to "look around". Depressing. Xmas shopping alone amongst 100s if not 1000s of beautiful and probably wealthy women? Crap, I gotta get out more....

Where's WC when I need her?

C

[Nomopo]

You're hot. And why is that depressing? That's the land of opportunity my friend.

[Not Much Left]

I know, for some reason, I was walking around feeling great, havent been there in a long time, nice decorations, nice scenery, and it hit me, always (at least in my opinion) shopped w/ W around Xmas having a good time; thinking about the past and future.....recipe for a mood swing I guess.....

It will pass...

[Heimlich]

Galleria = CVA Happy Hunting Grounds.

PULL!

It's good to be CVA.

[Not Much Left]

LOL
My response of "I know" could be construed w/ Nomo saying your hot!

Now that's funny.
C

[Gone Dancin']

GD, You are apparently the MAN!

What's your secret?

C

He's 30, hot, and tuned in.

LOL! Actually, I'm 28, hot, and tuned in. Jeez, Nomo -- trying to age me a little. Where did you get such an idea?

I think Nomo's pretty spot on, actually, regarding being "tuned in". I really see a lot of it being about attitude/confidence for me (of course, looks, age, and money certainly don't hurt!). Seriously, it's just the vibe that you send out. Once I began getting in better and better shape, detached from my W, and hit on a few times, I began to realize more and more that I have become a new commodity that is hot on the market, and began to feel really good about myself again. My confidence soared, and I began semi and full on flirting with women in all situations throughout the day without any expectations at all (just did it simply because I could and felt like it). Heck, I even got hit on by a hot, recently D'd mom at the dollar store last week (and I didn't even do anything -- she initiated it). It was crazy! Anyway, there's no more fear of rejection (which was bad deal for me previously), self-consciousness, etc. I just let it flow, and it feels really good!

Be confident and funny, but not overbearing. When your vibe comes across as happy and flirty but without force or a neediness/hope to it, it is an absolute gold mine! Many available women can't shake the scent of a man like that. They become curious because he is content with himself -- and THAT is very alluring. It's what Michelle has been talking about. That happy, confident, fun man is attractive. But you have to really BE it -- it can't be forced, or it is as transparent as saran wrap. That's how I see it anyway. And for me...

I've found my mojo, baby, YEAH!

GD

[Not Much Left]

Mojoe, Nomo, whatever it is, its working!

[ewe]

First, sorry CVA, this is going to be a short hijack.
OK guys, CVA, GD, if we are already on the subject , what would you recommend for us girls? I know confidence works for everybody, but what else is there in a woman that can make your hearts beat faster? If you don't mind me asking. I know it's an age old question, but I hope you guys don't mind answering again and again .

Ewe