Originally Posted By: Hurtin4certain
Ugh... another wave of anxiety... when will this stop?!?!?

I keep getting visions of W and OM. THis is horrible. I wish I could just let go.


Hey Hurtin,

It takes a while. I still get that way. But you need to remind yourself what you want.
Do you want your M to work out? If you do for your own good you need to try to keep the OM out of your head. I want so bad to talk to my W OM. I know where he lives. I know where he works. I have his numbers. but why? that will not bring my W back. It takes time and constant work to do this. If you can't get over the OM then even if you do get back together it will not be for long. your heart will not be in it.
Hey I am not saying I have gotten over the OM either. But I do think of him less and my W more.

Take care buddy

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know