[quote=phbear316]I think I need a shock collar, bear with me on this, it may work. I could shock myself everytime I think that he is with ow. Also I could use it when i feel down.

Problem is I will be dead from electrocution, or the batteries will be dead
/quote]

oh bear,
been reading your posts and feel your pain. We all have wanted to change our spouses, but can't . Read the DR, as everyone tells me ( i am re-reading) Michele says most of the time if we change our own behavior the other person will change theirs.
Be kind to your self, let friends help you., GAL and keep posting. Now your post I'm quoting. When i read the post TG I wasn't drinking coffee or otherwise be all over my computer screen. I do a lot of dog training and hate E-collars. Then when I read your post, too much and I cracked up laughing. Thank YOU. I needed a good laugh today.
keep posting and reading. GAL & FLY=First Love Yourself....need be check ladies, out flylady.com
grid, lost


-Love of dogs, every time I loose a dog to the bridge,part of my heart goes too. Ever time a puppy/dog comes into my life,he gives me a part of his heart. If live my life long enough, in time I'll have the heart of a puppy. -unknown (w/character limit)