we are at home, watching some UFC stuff and he randomly tells me
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he wants to see me naked. what sense does that make, can't we just sit down and have a nice evening... anyways. i tell him that i'm freezing and made a little joke about it. not 20 minutes later, after i'm covered up, he says it again. geez. he wants to see it, fine. afterwards i remind him that i know its important to him and if he directly asks me for something, I'll do it for him, but comments like that don't do anything for me and if anything, it turns me off more because he knows i didn't want to do it yet he continued at me until i did.
I think this is his way of testing you. In his mind, you did all these things for the OM and now he is pushing your buttons to test you and see how far you will go for him. I bet he almost sounds anything but sweet and sexy when he is telling you this, is he. I can almost see a snear on his face when he says it. He is obsessed with the thought of you desiring an OM or the thought of OM having seen you or desired you, etc. That is why he won't leave you alone and why he chooses inappropriate times to test you like he does. It's not b/c he wants to make love to you.....he is using you. I think down on some deep level, this is a way he has of punishing you also.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
