You ROCK Jenny! I'm proud of you for standing up to him. I let my H know some of my feelings today although I was too emotional about it and did it in a message. He said we can talk this weekend. I noticed that after he had to hear what I had to say he changed a little for the day. Don't know if he is softening or getting ready to drop a bigger bomb. Either way I will be thinking of you and hoping to be as strong as you.