Input, WH and I own business together

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hey mike,
how did the night out with friends go? There is nothing like a night out with friends to lift your spirits. As my grandmother use to say, does something good for the soul. lol
mention GK for your son???? what does that ref?
Coach, i am tring to get money together. quite expensive.
of course I am also keeping notes and reading. One post mentioned their coach said four things must take place in this order...both put down the weapons, be friends, romance, work on R. Thinking of telling H i am putting my weapons down so, he doesn't have to keep his nucs. on high alert.
Learning alot through all of this. One thing is Pain and Anger are for me the same moon. One side is just very dark.
OW and gifts., dam I keep waiting for you to tell me to through the gift back at him. lol
I honestly do not know if OW knows of the gifts. If she does,very little about them. that I am sure of. Steve would not be the type to flaunt such infront of her. He would keep it all very low key if mention at all. these are items one does not go into a store and shop for. So most likely OW knows not. If I were her and my Bo started sending/ picking up little gifts for the XW I'd sure be getting upset after the second time. ! In fact come to think of it. The antique item H had a long time ago and at time i told him not to send it to me. WOW he held onto it that long.!
I am not going to buy a christmas gift for him. He wants to be somewhere else well so be it. Mostly do not want to encourage the slightest possibility of H thinking we are all moving towards"best friends". This really hurts, the best friend issue and not buying him a gift. Last year I had a couple already bought when he left. So I sent them to him.
Now being selfish, I'm to hurt to buy him anything, besides I should be GAL, right? lIke you I am starting to wonder if the OWR isn't starting to cool, same thought has gone through my head. Today I even talk to him about med. stuff I have coming up in Jan 08 and H said, "I'll be there if you want me to". Keep in mind H wants us to be all "best friends".
H and I have an environmental business, we access, research, recover property of possible envirn. issues. Banks hire us alot to either help design clean up on property they are involved with or to evaluate on property they are going to hold a morgage on. Also do, wetland work, ID, delineate, rebuild, H is now doing historical geological work for NYS. Don't even ask me to explain what that is abut as way beyond anything I understand. Basicly looking by geology for signs of earlier life.....ice age right up to American indians. Do some spill prevention planning for Gas Co drilling for natural gas and other support geological/environmental stuff. Also we intergrate with state, federal agencies and attornies,ie these guys are somehow somewhere involved with every project. Rather interesting work when there is work. To be honest we do most any type environmental stuff, even mold collection/sampling, etc. Sorta like selling life insurance, always looking for the next contract.

Say I have an idea, W came and took christmas tree decorations. Why don't you have a party and tell everyone to bring an ornament for your tree. Everyone will have fun and new tree !!!
Gee I can't believe you wife would just walk in clear out christmas decorations. IF I were your D not sure that is what I'd want to be looking at in my living room. Family decorations in my house cause my parents split.mmmm.. yea, maybe you should change locks. last night while reading posts found one where H's W walked away and wanted D. So H treated everything as if that is how is. Such as did not want contact, they are divorcing, were not going to be friends, divorcing, etc. Maybe you should let your W experience life Dd. Change the locks.