Don't know what I'm doing anymore - Help.

[Dom R]

sigh.. multiple replies, 'cause long post of yours

it's hard because he won't tell me what he wants or needs other than me to want him and I don't. I try a lot of times to act "as if" i do, but i don't.

that's not what the "act as if" stuff is meant for.



if he wants you to "want him".... then you have every right to tell him, "The way people feel about others, depends on how they are treated by others. For me to 'want you', I need you to treat me better. "

and then tell him ways in which he could do that.