It stinks that you are where you are. I hope you can be strong for yourself and for your M.
it does stink. I want nothing more than to love my H and rebuild our M. I am just having a hard time doing it w/out his help. I am reading DR and i'm just trying to see where i fit in. He says he wants to work on the M, but his actions very rarely reflect that. One minute all i want to do is reassure him that no matter how hard it gets, all that matters is that we both want it and other times I'm just ready to throw in the towel cause he's too much work.
Is there anything your W could have said or done to make you feel better about it?
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown