No, I don't necessarily believe that I would take him back forever. I had it happen with an exBF from long ago; he came back, asked me to marry him and I was with J and told him too late.

He would see it as saber rattling if I said anything. Besides, earlier (months ago) I said "You don't want to end up like S where you come back and I have moved on" and he said "well, if it's meant to be..."

**edited to add** when he called me this afternoon, one of the first things he said was "What? Is it that you just can't live without me and the marriage?" and I said "of course I can. ANYONE can live without their marriage partner. The point is to get thru the tough times together." Anyway, that was an interesting question on his part, I thought.

How can I possibly say that and not have it come off like 'sour grapes'?


Last edited by Trixi; 12/07/07 10:50 PM.
Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing