now a hug, cause it seems like you could use one. ((((dh))))
who knows what she is really thinking right now? only HER and she may not even be 100% clear on that in her present state.
Keep DBing. You've been doing good. Do i personally think you are maybe doing to much for her? Yeah probably, but only you know your wife. This is what i was thinking reading your last few convos with her:
you are too nice a guy. she wants out and she wants things to move faster. That's on her. she doesn't have a job and can't pay her bills and she doesn't deal with her car, she can't call 411 for a phone number? so you do it all for her. who caused these problems? HER that's right...
a few days ago you said:
Originally Posted By: dh4320
i also heard she made a comment to a mutual friend that she feels that i would take her back at any point, so does that give her the emotional room to push me as far as i will let her??
yes. not that you should believe much of what you hear, but if she really feels that way, that's exactly what she's doing. she's seeing how much you'll put up and let her get away with...
hang in there, hopefully someone will have something better for you, but just keep reading and DBing. you can do it.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
