Keep your expectations low. Her "feelings" have not changed, but HER intellect and YOUR actions are forcing her to question HER actions and future plans.
Stay the course. It's HER life, do not attempt to control her in any way. Be a sound post. Women need to vent, need a man to be sturdy, listen to her fears and stay strong. Do not cower when she says she "loves you but she is not in love with you". Know that whatever she says her feelings are today, will change in the future. Allow her to feel and express whatever she's feeling without it affecting YOUR demeanor. Put on the shield of Christ. You will be under attack, you are being tested.
Stay focused on YOUR failings, YOUR intentions, YOUR life and accept her as she is, love her as she is, be a friend. Do not defend the actions of your past. Pur your needs aside and be her friend. Pretend you just met her yesterday. You have no ties, no claim on her, just a caring heart.
Know that when you feel the weight of the world pulling you down into the pit of darkness, that is a dark force attempting to control you. Pray the evil dog away, pray and pray and pray.
May the strength and courage of a thousand armies be with you today.
God Bless,
COG
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