I believe that I will soon hear firm plans for moving out from my H. My intention is to keep DBing, even if that happens - I haven't yet given up hope of making our marriage work. Is there any way to give this message to children without giving them 'false' hope or spouse bashing - you know "your dad wants to move out but I'm going to keep hanging in there, so I'm the good parent" kind of thing?
I'd like them to also have a little hope, but I don't know if they can understand that, at the same time, we may never get back together. Is it too much to expect from children?
