Love, PAIN and the Whole Crazy Thing

[mcol]

{In my and other military wive's defense, some of us do understand. }
Redhead,
I would say that about 10% have situations in there marriage where something unfortunate happens. These deployments are not easy for anyone involved. My heart goes out to anyone who is experiencing difficulties. I just know that while things were not paradise with us, my perception was that the issue was not so bad. My frustration comes from those who tell family members not to tell their spouses what is going on back home. We worry anyway about our families. At least if the spouse is being keeping their service member informed, bombs like mine may not happen.

Who knows, I just know that I am done making my family pay the price for my decisions in the Army.

Hope you all are doing ok.