As a brief review, my WAW kicked me out of house, put every bill in her name, sold mini-van, purchase GT6, mailed papers 11/19, met to discuss papers 11/29, even changed the front door 1st week I was gone.
Now, I finally get an uninterrupted period of darkness. All contact with WAW can be avoided except for Sunday morning to pick-up 5D. I supppose re-reading a good bit of the "going dark" forum today and deciding about what I am going to do Friday and Saturday has left me in a more detached mode. I know leaving her alone and the darkness is best for her and ME. Also, going to learn how to crochet an afghan for 5D while I do laundry Saturday morning. Small parts of GAL.
Question - 1)Do 'special' days such as dating anniversary on 19th, wedding anniversay on 2lst, and holiday season mean something to WAW or do these days get "reprogrammed" like all other memories?
Thought - My WAW will be bringing 5D to my place X-Mas eve at 8:00pm. So, my 4 weeks of darkness will end. Hard to imagine this meeting. She could simply honk horn and have 5D run inside as she leaves or we can play Santa, or or or... Regardless, I will continue to improve my life for 5D and myself. But with all of these days, it makes me wonder if WAW will do anything different.