Better late than never?

[jon2911]

I called on Thursday after work, to see if she wanted to watch a movie. She said "no thanks, I'm exhausted", then fell asleep and called me a couple hours later.

This was the first time I've initiated spending time together, and while I got turned down, it was in a pleasant way. Not sure what to make of that.

I'd sent her this text on Wednesday night, but no response:

M: Lauren, last night was one of the best nights of my life. It was so real, saying I love you and hearing it back, even if it was the last time. Thank you.


Today, I got this message:
W: what a sweet message thank you.
M: going out of town this weekend?
W: not sure yet
(she had told me she's either going to Houston, or a friend's coming here)
W: R u?
M: Yes, I'm making some plans, but let me know if you want to hang out
(this was risky, but I thought it was worth a shot)
W: Maybe Sunday afternoon/evening?
M: k, your place at 2?
W: Sounds good, may need to move it later, but not yet
M: K, have a great weekend, see you then
W: U too be careful

A little later she called to ask if I'd be free to help her pick something up at 3:00. Unfortunately (or fortunately, because it shows I have a life) I work until 5:00.


Still very confused about what this all could mean. It really doesn't seem like she wants to go through with the D, and maybe going dark, GAL, and a lot of the other stuff I've been doing over the last several months has been working? Then again, she may just want to meet on Sunday to talk more about the divorce. Who knows? But I'll definitely show up this time.

Fortunately I have some good GAL stuff this weekend: cigars tonight with a friend, brother's basketball game and a football game tomorrow, hanging with friends Sat. night, church Sunday, then hanging out with the wife. We'll see, any advice is appreciated.