just spoke to h, he just called to tell me his schedule for the weekend. He is going to work tonight, and he then says he is going to the wedding sat. I say are you taking her? his answer is I don't need or want to tell you what I am doing with her, its not the point. I grew up with Robin, and and I should go to the wedding. I say well i dont appreciate that you are taking her to the wedding, I did not get a vote or say about it, He says well with everything that is going on, it was just the best answer. I say well how hard could it be, to go to dinner that's the way I looked at it. H says it would be hard. Fu*&ing bastard. Then he says I may have to go back to work on sunday. After a moment of silence i say, well I would not have done this to you. But you feel you need to do what you need to do, but I am giving you your space. It was just really a dinner to me I know robin and everyone too and your not being fair.

he then starts to talk about schedule, and staff not working. we say goodby and I basically did not say goodbye just hung up.

I was then just forced to call him back, and the first thing I said was i don't want to fight but with you i want to keep communication with you open, but this hurt me what you are doing. anyway then asked if his boss was on his way to meeting with my boss.

This has pushed me to the end of my rope, the next conversation that he will tell me I bet Sun the 16th is that he is going to fla on the 18th.

THIS SUCKS,
bear


Me 42-Him 40
T20yrs Married 16yrs
2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore"
6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW
12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce