Seriously, I was thinking the same thing. I don't know that you're W has felt hte impact of you actually being out of the picture yet. You've been in this situation for, what, 8 or 9 months? A little longer?
Need to find me a quasi-date
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY