Racer, You should let him go completely. You will never be "just friends" again. If I found out my H was being friends with the OW I would blow a gasket. No way.
I agree with Mark. The OM knew what he was getting into. suck it up. It really burns me that these OP have the nerve to be angry and hurt when they get involved with married people. That's their problem if they get hurt.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
