I'd say it should be unexpected. WAW, how many times have you hung with this guy?
Several times in group setting, thats how we met and we have been out for pizza & beers 3 times and 1 dinner (which was in between the pizza & beers. So guess in all he has had 3 dates not counting the group hangouts which we did not spend a lot of time together at. No monkey business if you know what I mean. Met him about 3 months ago. The couple "dates" have been over about 4-6 weeks.
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Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
Good Lord man. Three dates and you want an understanding of where a R is going??? You want exclusivity??? Just enjoy spending time with each other. Enjoy life. Enjoy the moments, as they come. Don't worry about tomorrow's moments for crying out loud. In my mind, dates non- Can't we just have fun?
This is right on the money. Excuses be randy wink wink!
If I am dating, I want the buffet. Not the chicken every night.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
WAW, Two things: first, did you give this guy any reason to think more (besides being your awesome self)? I doubt it. Second, and Moe importantly, will you go out with me? I promise to be lots of fun and non-clingy\needy. We could find a place half-way and spend a few non-exclusive nights hitting the town.
Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
WAW, Two things: first, did you give this guy any reason to think more (besides being your awesome self)? I doubt it. Second, and Moe importantly, will you go out with me? I promise to be lots of fun and non-clingy\needy. We could find a place half-way and spend a few non-exclusive nights hitting the town.
Nomo
This gentleman has been divorced 4 or 5 years...literally came home to find the wife upstairs with her lover and waited on the couch for them to come down and told the man to get of his house before he lost his temper...Needless to say that was it. Ever since then he has been a women hater. He has a bad rep with all the girls I know, the call him the deuce cause no one ever gets more than 2 dates. Very untrusting of women. Lucky me seems to have caught his attention. Way more attention than I ever wanted. Seemed like a safe bet. Hangout with the 2 date guy and move on! Not so much. Now its about 4 dates and he's talking about the future!!!!
Anyway, any time you wonderful boys are here in Boston would love to hang out have some drinks and laughs since we all know its in good fun!
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
Random question for you, WAW. Went for drinks at the Green Dragon last year (I think that's the name, the one paul revere hung out at and planned some of the Rev War stuff). Anyway, they had a really good cider on tap there. Any clue as to what that would be?
Have misplaced my friend's email (she'd know) and this is driving me crazy.
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
