Update WC (Wife Clone defined) agreed to go with me to my Xmas dinner (just me and my 2 colleagues and their wives). Couldnt think of a reason why I shouldnt ask her so I did.
Uhhmmmm, Thats Great?
W sent me an email last night of something from Utube I think, a story about drinking out of glasses in Hotel Rooms, pretty gross, I was just suprised she sent it at all?
Weird.
Just sent her the "Spreadsheet" which outlines ALL our expenses and Income and Assest so she can see how much we spend (I NEED A BLACK AMEX!) and what is left at the end of every month! That was a painful exercise. At some point I was thinking, this is a good exercise, then I almost like blissful ignorance!
It should be sobering for my W to see how much *she* spends every month on clothes and food.
We shall see...
C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
Only reason I can think of is that it might send shock waves through your W if she finds out. Before going down that road I would hope you are good with the possible fallout... are you?
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
I think my W is so gone, the only thing that might "shake her up" about me is if she knows I won't always be there or that someone else might want me. I do think she does not *think* about me with someone else.
Don't get me wrong, I am not doing this for her, I am doing it for me. "Quasi dating" I think is what WAW called it.....I ask for full commitment after 4 dates! That was for Nomo!
C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
Seriously, I was thinking the same thing. I don't know that you're W has felt hte impact of you actually being out of the picture yet. You've been in this situation for, what, 8 or 9 months? A little longer?
Need to find me a quasi-date
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
Just got it, it went to Junk mail, that is next Thursday? If so, it is the Dinner night.
C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
If you're ready then get out there and do it, brotha! Your sense of humor is definitely the golden ticket!
I'm currently VERY casually seeing (dating?) two very different women (30 and 31) and just enjoying my time with them. However, I think my 23 yr old trainer (yeah, baby!) from the gym dropped a pretty big hint yesterday about being interested in me. An older guy came over and began talking with my trainer. He told her how cute she was, and that this is probably why she gets the good looking guys to work out with (nodding at me). She replied with, "Yeah, unfortunately it's always through work." The guy then says, "Fortunately?" and she answers with, "Unfortunately."
We get along pretty well and laugh/joke a lot during the workout, and I'm about to finish working with trainers in general and to just workout on my own from here on out. Maybe I'll ask her out sometime, too!
I'm also quite sure my daughter's preschool teacher is interested too (as is the now 20 yr old from dance that I had the drunken night with during Halloween).
Apparently the old saying, "When it rains, it pours," can be positively applied to women too!
