Ouch. I felt that one Sara - that felt like a rebuke to me!!!!! I wish I could be nice to OW but I just can't be.

Imp - you are even in that you can take the strong comments and learn from them aswell as dish them out. Some people cannot.

I believe you will be here giving out good advice to people long after many of us have moved on - but remember - there may be times when if you are not careful you will stop this place being a safe haven. I do realise that you have offered to not post to people at times when they have found your advice 'strong' and in nearly every case that person has come back to you and thanked you - eventually.

I was hoping you would reply to my comment about not knowing what 'hot' is until you have actually felt it for ones self.

Saffie


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength